Friday, April 10, 2009

Happy Moment In Life~

After started to write blogs, I just found out that this would be probably the first one mentioning positive feelings or somethings that had made my life to joy. For your information, I had just participated the Public Speaking Competition in the English Carnival that was held yesterday in Datuk Mansor school. That would be consider the last time participating as this year I was form 5. For the last two years, I also did participate and I got champions for bothe years. So for this year is quite stress for me as teachers was putting the best hope on me hoping that I could maintain the good performances and score it just like the past.
On the day, teacher allowed me to bring two of my frenz to support me. Quite happy coz there was someone there to support me and give me courage to be on stage.. We reached there by bus early in the morning with the choral speaking representors of my school..After reaching the school, found out that the school was extremely large.
Once we reached there, me and my both friends were overwhelmed with joy..We also manage to get a few pics when we were there early in the morning. Later on the competition started. I got to know that I was the 7th participant among the 14 of them. A lucky number I think. Finally, it was my turn. I felt quite nervous actually. Before that my script was at least 6 minutes but when I was there I just get to know that only 5 minutes provided. So feeling nervous but at last still can overcome it with the support of my frens.
The first session had past, it comes to the impromptu speech part now, that means each participants are give couple of minutes to prepare and then is required to deliver it spontaneously. The topic was about "How to overcome stress?" . Still can manage with it . I just gave myself for 80% in the performances I made. When I was performing the impromptu speech, I found out that some of my true frens also there to support me. Feeling quite touched as it was unexpected.So I told myself to do the best of it and not to make my frens down and of course the teachers. ha.

The below photo is taken by friend during competition:


After waiting waiting and waiting, it finally reaches 5.00, the most important moment that is the prize-giving ceremony. Quite exhaust after waiting for such long. Soon, the chairperson started to announce the results for Public Speaking Competition. "The third place goes to... Second is... And the Champion goes to LEE MING HONG from SMJK Chi Wen." What! I can't believe my ears again.. My school mates cheer the hall with their applauses and voices. Feeling so happy that I never let people arond me down. Yes, I did it! My school also got champion for the choral speaking competition. It is a good news too for over school.
Although feeling tired, I was still so so so happy. As tomorrow is my important day, haha. My birthday. So this results in the competition can already considered as one of the greatest gift as birthday present in my life for this year. Appreciate it so much. I would also like to use this oppurtunity to thank all my friends arond me that had given me the best wishes and supporting me over there, and to the teachers they had trained me hardly and always given me the courage to do it well, and of course thanks to my parents that had always be there when I need. I will continue to do well in future and I hope the best for the coming soon state level competition...
Thanks~ ^_^ Best Wishes For Everyone Too!

Text by Nick..



Saturday, April 4, 2009

LiFe To FacE???


Recently, I am always considering and thinking wheter I myself is a successful leader or not?After a long term thinking, I could say that I am still not consider a fully successful one in leadership. There is still a large space for me to improve and upgrade myself. Every leader does have their stress and hardships or even challenges to face, it is about who you are and what you want to become of yourself. Same to me, I also having stress after being the leader of the prefect team. But the point is that how are we going to face everything steadily. Sometimes there are a few options to choose to face out problems, why not we choose the positive way if we can? In daily life, the most thing that we are going to face is the people around us. So, it is very important to know how to get along with people around us. Actually, sometimes I use to lose some friends around me due to some unwanted misunderstanding .So what can i do? That was the fact already. So, the things that I can do is to recognize more frens and people around me. But not stopping there and do nothing or being aggressive. "A wise man learns from their mistakes". Never feel regret to the mistake you hade done, but learn something from the mistake you hade done and turn over a new leaf and you can be the better one.
For me, I am not consider a perfect leader actually. Actually, there were so many stress and problems that I need to face each day. But what I choose is I face my life happily. I choose not to bother how people angry, hate or even gossips about me. But I try to do things that make people around me to feel happy. "Be yourself" becomes the motto for me personally to lead my life. Whenever people comment about me I would not care too much. I will just interpret, and I will change it if I think it really affect the whole situation. If it is just the gossips, I would rather not care. A successful people is always be strict to their desicions and never be affected by the gossips. Just feel those who are gossiping just as singing.
Followed by, each leader have certain things they need to sacrifice. For example, I sacrificed some of my friendship indirectly.However,it depends very much on the point we stand. Never feel regret to the sacrifices we made as it will reflect a better future for our own. So we don't know what happen next, what happen tomorrow, next week or in the future, so why not let us face life happily each day. A simle on the face keeps away tons of problems from us. Some of my friends use to scold me in purposely sometimes just for the fun of it but what to do? For me, i will think that if scolding me that is a kind of interest of his or her and can make the one to feel happy and why not just let it be. I just want to be myself. I am still a happy one. Nothing to be worry. If one day I lost everything, I will still have my family, I still have my siblings, I still have my relatives. They would be my 100% supporters forever. I will always appreciate every single one around me as we know life brief candle.
Anyway, it is actually quite difficult to express my feelings or opinions into words. No pain no gain. Nothin' is impossible. So take all these words as encouragement for us to succeed in our life.